I'll do anything for love but I won't do that!

Good Evening Blogger World..

How's it hanging?!

Today was the final day of my course.  It wasn't half as painful as I'd imagined it would be.  Infact, it was a damn sight more interesting than Friday's session!  I met some interesting people and learned a few more things that I can use in the world of work, which was good.

Yesterday on the way to get my chicken n chips with spare ribs I encountered a guy from my past, from my younger years, at least 15 years ago.  I knew who he was as soon as I saw him, but I pretended not to know him as one does when one doesn't want to mingle LOL.  Well he wasn't having it.  He stopped me in the street and proceeded to call me by my name, reminding me of where and when I met him, etc etc.  So the game was up, no avoidance.  Being diplomatic me, I had a bit of a chit chat with him.  I was dying to get away, not least just to eat my food.  I didn't like him much when we were associated and it was all flooding back exactly why!

Anyway, I brought the conversation to an end as soon as he told me he lived close by.  Oh jeez.. in the same area as me?! Hopefully I won't see him around too often.  He asked for my phone number to keep in touch.  I said "no".  I wasn't pussy-footing around, just an unequivocal no.

Now I remember when I was young and easily gullible he had wanted to "woo" me and promised me all manner of things, to take me shopping at Selfridges in London for lots of clothes.  It was all talk, lots of bullshit.  I remember being so mad because he'd offered and I hadn't asked.  Obviously I now know that talk is cheap, but back then I didn't, or I was just blinded by my material desires to believe the lies.

I also remember him inviting me around for a meal and it being the most disgusting stench ever.  He apparently was cooking a traditional Nigerian dish.  I watched him put water into a big industrial steel cooking pot, then drop some chicken pieces in, boil those with no herbs or spices, then later proceed to add goat meat and kidneys, tomato puree and a stock cube.  I remember seeing the water frothing white and the stench of the kidneys being unbearable.  I had to leave the house.  He offered me some food and I said "Sorry, but my stomach isn't lined with lead so there's no way I can eat that without shitting myself for the best part of a year".  LOL.  Tact back then wasn't my strongest point.  Oh yuck, I can still remember the smell when I think about that day.  So that, together with his lies and seeing him in the street brought it all back and I felt like the cat that tried to get away from Pepe Le-Pew the skunk.

He just reminds me of a predator with me always being his prey, except I have an invisible electric fence surrounding my perimeter and he isn't getting within touching distance of me.  Not now, not ever!

It's funny when you think about it that I refused to give him my number when my escort number is on the world wide web for any and everyone to see.  I think if he knew I did escorting he'd probably book me and you know I wouldn't be going through with the booking.  Just like Meatloaf said "I'll do anything for love... but I won't do that.. no I won't do that!"

On another note today I've been a very naughty girl.  I've had a Belgian bun, lots of apple crumble and sweets.  This is bad, very bad.  I have to cut right back for the rest of the week.  Sometimes I just have cravings and I don't try to fight very hard on some days, like today, but then end up penalising myself for the rest of the week.

I also need to get my hair done soon, get to the salon and get it washed and retwisted.  I love when it's freshly done.  I never wash my hair myself, no way, it's too tiresome.  I love getting it done, just the hassle of going there and sitting in the salon for around 3 hours minimum.  Sometimes I think it'd be a whole lot easier to just get a grade 1 hair cut but I don't have the right head shape for that.

Anyway enough of my jibber jabber.. I'm off!

So my people, I'm outta here and be back tomorrow.

Ciao ciao *mwah*

Dreaming I met Shakira

Good Evening Blogger World

I've not long ago woken up from my late siesta.  Lately I've been feeling so tired.  I fear my time of the month is approaching.. nay nay *the lady doth protest*.. I can't seem to keep my eyes open for more than a few hours and these are the symptoms, along with a craving for chicken and chips with spare ribs, which alas I'll be going out to get soon.


During my sleep, I had a dream that I was having photos taken.  Although I'm not sure who was taking these photos.  I wanted photos taken on the bus.  Managed to get a few taken on one bus but the other was too busy with people to get any good shots.  I was somewhere trying to get to Victoria in London, why I don't know.

Anyway, I finally got to my destination *where is still a haze* and I met Shakira.  We were in a dressing room with the person taking my photos.  We had a few photos taken together, then her song comes on the radio "Whenever, Wherever", we start dancing, she's teaching me the moves.  When the song finishes we give her a loud hoot and clap.  Then I hug her.

That's it.  I woke up after that feeling a little miffed.


Then to my surprise "Dancing on Ice" was on the TV and I realised that a pair of the contenders had danced their routine to this song.


Strange how external music and noises can influence your dreams.  My dream started off with me having photos done and trying to get to Victoria and ended with me dancing with Shakira.  My brain probably used the music to influence the direction of my dream.  How strange!!


I don't like to sleep with the TV on usually, now I know why!

On another note I'm completely fed up of this cold weather.  Feels like it's been cold for about a year.  Reality is its been cold since about October last year but I've had enough of it, coupled with the early darkness, it's bloody depressing!  Bring on summer, as I suffer with SAD big time.


Have another day of the boring bloody course tomorrow all day!  I can't see myself being fit enough to do incalls tomorrow after it finishes.


Ah an American guy called me today about 12pm this afternoon.  He asks if I can come to see him as soon as possible for a 1 hour outcall.  I said I needed 3 hours notice minimum.  After all I'm in my bed and it's a lazy Sunday, he hasn't booked in advanced.  Wants me to come to a hotel in Park Lane, central London.  When I suggested 3pm earliest, he said it'd be too late as he's got a flight to catch.  I said to him he's welcome to call me next time he's around. 


Last night a regular who I've seen twice already (I think that constitutes a regular client) calls me at 1am this morning asking if I can come and see him for a 1 hour outcall.  I declined.


What the hell is wrong with people.  Available today doesn't mean Available right now at the drop of a hat.  This is on my profile, call before 1pm for same day bookings.  Idiots, arse holes, stupid pricks *exhales*.. feeling alot better now I've got that out of my system.  

The regular should know better so I emailed him this morning letting him know any further phone calls after 11pm will go unanswered and reminding him of my working times for outcalls 12pm - 10pm.  That's a polite way of saying "listen luv, if you insist on calling me after my working hours asking for an outcall you'll get blocked you stupid fuck!"


I guess you can figure I'm hungry and fed up, yep!
My right foot is still a bit tender since I stepped on the glass.  No open wound but it still hurts if I put too much pressure on it.


Anyway mi lovelies, stay tuned and maybe just maybe I'll get to play with a few of you this week.


Ciao ciao.. on the flip side.. and don't have any weird dreams hehe.. xxx

catching up on lost time

Well.. good evening or good morning, take your pick for whatever time zone you're in! LOL.

My sleep pattern's been completely fucked up tonight.  Had an early start Friday morning on a boring training course, so boring infact that I fell asleep during some of it.  Felt really tired throughout the day, finally got home at 5pm and had a snooze from 6-9pm.  But now I can't sleep, also feeling a bit hot and agitated too.

Really glad I didn't have any bookings yesterday because honestly I was completely knackered when I got back.  Same thing again on Monday, so maybe I'll have to reschedule that incall date for Tuesday instead.  Although its been so quiet on the escorting front lately I doubt it'd make any difference!  My phone didn't ring once today with an enquiry, infact it hasn't rang for a few days, weird or what?!

I had one guy call me earlier this week on Tuesday evening wanting an incall.  I pulled those dates from my AW profile at 1pm on the day as noone had booked and I'm not one to sit around twiddling my thumbs.  So he'd obviously seen the dates earlier on in the day but decided to call me at 5:30pm wanting a booking an hour or so later.  Idiot!!  Guys like that really get on my nerves.  Think I'm at their beck and call sitting in stockings all day waiting for their phone call.  I refused his booking, wasn't about to start booking a hotel and making my way to Earls Court in the evening for a 1hr booking, dream on!  I changed my profile that very evening to say book before 1pm for same day bookings.

Not long ago finished watching Eastenders on BBC iPlayer.  I can't believe Ian was going to let Phil die.  The thing is, now that he's made Phil beg for his life, finally called the ambulance and Phil's survived, when he fully recovers, it's gonna get really messy.  Phil's gonna be out for Ian's blood big time.  Ian should've made the decision and stuck to it, as horrid as that sounds, because any day soon he's going to wish either he was dead or he let Phil die.

I'm really itching for a holiday now.  Somewhere tropical with temperatures of around 25C, nice sea breeze, fresh sea food, beautiful sunshine, laid back culture.  Infact a tropical paradise seems good right now.  Hawaii, Mauritius, the Cook Islands, Seychelle Islands.  Somewhere to relax.  I've always wanted to return to Goa.  My friend is back there now, although he's married so his life is very different, things wouldn't be the same as he now has responsibilities other than work.

So what will the weekend hold?  Who knows.. I'll play it by ear, see how it goes.  Don't be surprised if it's a lazy one!

Anywhoo.. I'm offskee.. so catch you all tomorrow.

Stay blessed *mwah*

An escort's work is never done!

Hi World

Well I never quite got around to writing a blog yesterday.

But.. finally my site is up and live.  Today I've been busy checking out escort directories, trying to get myself listed, that in itself is so time consuming, I've been at it for a good 10 hours at least!  8 listings and applications, the rest having to trawl through, read up, join to find out what they should've told me before making me register, etc.

Alot of these directory sites require a front page listing on my site for a free listing on theirs.  Personally I don't want to do this.  I think it makes a home page look untidy and draws attention away from what the site is for.. i.e. ME!
Besides, these sites haven't got me on their front pages so it's a bit of a cheek as they can't guarantee to drive traffic to my site or guarantee me any bookings!  In fact their banners all over my front page may very well drive visitors away!

I'm going to keep all banners and links to the "links" page on my site.  That way if anyone wants to find external links they'll know where to look.  The exception being my twitter and blog hotlinks.

So far I've had good feedback and one that wasn't quite positive about my site.  The critique being that it's too dark, too much info and the photos could be better.  I take it all on board.  I'm personally quite proud of how the site looks so far and with time I'll develop it more.  I love the black site though, I wanted it that way.  I'm celebrating black, too often black is seen as negative when it's as positive as white.  Anyway, I'll see how things pan out and wait for feedback from clients.  If most are saying the same thing I'll look at making changes, but right now it's too early in the day for that.

Also, I want alot of info on my site so people don't spend alot of time calling me asking the same generic questions.  At least if it's all there I can refer them back to the site.  The danger with not having enough info is people booking me and trying shit I'm not into, then worse case scenario, getting violent or abusive because I didn't make it clear on my site and it wasn't raised at the point of enquiry.

The plan is to spend more time escorting and less time answering questions.  Plus, I don't like to answer questions about sexual services over the phone. 

An early start tomorrow, not looking forward to it.

Hopefully I'll have a few incalls in the evening, who knows.  If not, then I'll come home and do some camming as I need to start making some more money, the sooner the better!

Still feel like I'm writing to myself, tweeting to myself.. hopefully that feeling will go away in the not too distant future, but hey ho I'll soldier on, keep smiling, keep trying to achieve and be better, that's all I can do!

So I'm going to sign off and watch Coronation Street (the 1:35am repeat) before I hit the sheets.

Peace out baby xx

Are escorts like chickens?

Hi Blogger World..

I'm trying to get into the habit of blogging everyday.  Right now I have no followers, but maybe just maybe someone will come across my blog and find it an interesting read.

Lately I've found myself wondering whether escorts are infact like chickens.  No I don't mean with feathers, clucking and laying eggs haha.

There's different types of chickens; free range, caged, barn hens with limited free range kept inside, organic, GM chickens.

With escorts we have Indies, Brothel Girls, Parlour Girls, Agency Girls, Street Girls, Girls with physical or/and narcotic enhancements that could fit into all categories other than organic.

So given these examples, are Indies - free range, Brothel Girls - caged, Parlour & Agency Girls - barn with limited free range.  Street Girls fitting somewhere between free range and barn?

If we are, I'd like to think of myself as being a free range, organic chicken.

Punters often moan about indies charging more, getting better deals on the street, with agencies or in parlours and that Indies are just too expensive.

When you buy a chicken, the price is very much dependent on how the chicken is fed and reared.  Organic corn fed chicken is often the most expensive.  Some claim it's better for your health and tastes better too.

I'll leave you with that food for thought until tomorrow.

Peace out x

The predictable nature of the beast!

Well good morning to you.. Blogging World!

Today I'm going to discuss the predictable nature of the beast.  Who is the beast you may ask?  Frienemies.

In life, you meet people, they come and go.  That's life.  They exist in your world for a purpose.  As nature takes its course sometimes that purpose ends and with it goes the friendship.  Everything happens for a reason.

However, there are times people come into your world that act like a friends, but the truth of the matter is they're your worst enemy.  While smiling in your face, being so nice, pretending to be true, the reality is their brains are scheming and plotting your demise.  They don't have your best interests at heart, you were never their friend, you were always their enemy without you even knowing it.  I call these people "Frienemies".

Someone once said "Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer".  I disagree.  Keeping your enemies close means having to watch your back even more, having to take precautions not to become intoxicated with the poison of your enemy.  It can make you digress from your goal as you spend too much time and energy watching them!  If you roll around in shit all day everyday, you end up smelling like shit!  Shit seeps into your pores and before you know it you can't get rid of the smell, so now you wreak of the shit and make yourself sick in the process.

No.. better to identify your enemies, keep close friends tight, keep frienemies in the distance in the night!

Once you've identified your frienemies and cut contact they may turn nasty.  Why?  Because they no longer have direct access to you, to watch what you're doing, to try to manipulate and control you.  They watch from the sidelines, as you do what's necessary to succeed they get frustrated and lash out in irrational ways.

The important thing here is to understand the nature of your frienemies.  In the time you were with them they revealed certain characteristics of their true nature.  Not the side of them they wanted you to see, but their true side (hidden behind the niceness).  Maybe that was negativity, putting you down under the facade of giving you friendly advice, paranoia, spitefulness, bitchiness and rage directed at others.  If you've witnessed these traits, never be fooled into thinking it won't happen to you, that they won't turn on you.  It's just a matter of time.  TICK TOCK..

Once you've reflected and understood the nature and actions of your frienemies, it becomes alot clearer that as you rise, to gain an edge in life, they'll always attempt to obstruct your path.  By being nasty towards you, bad mouthing you publicly, trying to turn others against you, bullying and intimidating others into their way of thinking, playing the victim (this is common), etc.

My advice is to turn the other cheek and continue on the path to achieving your objective.  If out of sheer frustration you do retaliate, do it only once, make sure you keep a mental note of the frienemies actions, because those actions will also help you predict their every move towards you in the future.

Don't worry about what frienemies say to other people.  Those with their own minds (who think for themselves) will see the negative characteristics of the beast in due course.  The true nature of the beast will always reveal itself.

When you understand the nature of the beast, you're able to predict their future moves towards you.  It shouldn't bother or phase you in any way whatsoever, because you expected it to happen and prepared yourself for their venom.  In other words, take the antidote before the poison comes your way, that way your immune system is already prepared.  Forewarned is forearmed!

Frienemies come and go, watch your every move and do everything they can to keep you down.  How you deal with it is what defines your character.  Their own actions, deeds and poisonous spiel will bring about their downfall.  What's their loss is your gain.  Sit back and let them self-destruct while you remain calm and positive; keeping your eye directly on your goals.

Frienemies spend more time than you know studying your every move, even neglecting the things that they should be paying attention to in the quest to destroy you.  You're able to see the full extent of their obsession.  You're likely to discover that your mere existence brings out their insecurities.  They've given you power over their actions!  Others will eventually see their true nature, obsession and irrationality without you saying a word or them knowing the details of why you parted company.

So to my frienemies I say this:

So mind when you trip.. 
When you feel that you're tripping
It's me that is making you trip
Keep your mind on your shit
When I tell you to jump
You jump until I say to sit.. LOL

(Asher D)

Wishing you all nothing but happy thoughts x

Bloody Start to the day!!

Hi there

Well this morning started off all wrong!
I got up, walked to the kitchen to switch the kettle on for my cup of coffee and stepped on a shard of glass.  It went deep into the bottom of my right foot.  I had to pull it out, it was so painful.  I can only imagine what it feels like to pull a knife out of your flesh, it was something along those lines.  When it came out, there was blood everywhere.  Over the kitchen and living room floor.  I quickly grabbed my first aid kit, cleaned the wound with antiseptic wipes and put a big square plaster over the area.

It's now been about 5 hours and my foot is still stinging, hope to God it doesn't get infected!

Last night I tried to open a bottle of red wine and the cork is so tightly stuck that it wasn't happening!  I did consider breaking the bottle to get to the wine, but then thoughts of swallowing glass and being an alcoholic junkie came to mind so I decided against that! LOL.

Last week I had a really nice booking.  A client came to visit, was determined to have penetrative sex with me this time around.  Everytime he visits, he's blown away by my BJ's and never gets round to doing the deed.  Not this time!!  He refused to let me give him a full on BJ and once he'd got me to orgasm by giving me some great oral, asked me to get ontop and ride him slowly.

I'd set up some candlelights, to make the room ambient beforehand and got ontop of him.  It made a nice change as most clients want me to get ontop and ride them vigorously like a cow girl.  I had to keep telling myself to stay in 2nd gear, nice and slow, very sensual.  I really enjoyed it, he filled me completely and kept saying how tight my pussy was.  He finally exploded a very happy man!  I hope to do that again real soon!

Yesterday I received notification from AW that a client had purchased me an item from my wishlist.  How nice is that?!  Can't wait to receive it.  This guy chose me as the winner to his reverse booking.  We had a great time together.  He left some great feedback and a lovely field report.  I wasn't expecting anything else.. but wow.. it's nice to feel appreciated.

On another note, it's so great to have my own blogging space.  Getting rather tired of bitchy women on AW, one in particular that seems to think we're in some competition, a bitch with a bone.  I'll write about that at a later date.

Anyway, my belly's rumbling, time for another cuppa soup me thinks..

Catch you on the flip side *mwah* xxx

My first blog away from Adultwork

Hi World

My first blog away from Adultwork and I thought it's high time I wrote something as it's the start of much more to come.

Lately, I've been very busy building and creating my website with the help of a client who has now sort of become a friend too, in the escort sense of the word.  I'm really excited about it, but at the same time so frustrated as it's taking too bloody long to get to a point where it can go live!  Ahh.. patience, one of the virtues I was never bestowed with.  I'd hoped that as I got older it might somehow materialize but that hasn't happened.  Part of me really feels like throwing a hissy fit/throwing the towel in as I'm getting pissed off, but I've come way too far to stop now.

I've been like Dr Dre "Locked in the basement" working hard and a university student cramming in last minute studies who left it too late before the start of an exam.  Honestly, it's taken alot of time and resources and I didn't even start it from scratch myself.  But considering I never knew a thing before, I'm able to write codes, update pages, add links, etc so I'm getting there slowly but surely.  It's all my creative input, ideas and text, with the help of someone bringing it to life!

But you know, I'm an Aries.. first sign of the zodiac.  Leader, not a follower, so when I do something, I do it properly.  No half hearted measures.  When it's finished it will be a work of magnificent art!  Next move after that is advertising in the right places to be seen and get the bookings!!

I recently created a twitter account, so my next stop after this blog is to start tweeting like "tweetie pie" ha!  Incase you're interested, the link is: http://www/twitter.com/NubianTempAmil
I wanted the name Nubian Temptress but some fucker got there first grrr..

Escorting has been too quiet of late.  I guess you guys are pretty damn broke, what with Xmas, the long wait until payday, the January sales.. etc etc blah di bloody blah!  It's a horrid month, but Valentines day approaches, so maybe some of you want some lovin', a GFE, PSE, an unforgettable experience with a horny nubian minx, well I'm here ready and waiting.  I haven't had sex in hmmn.. lemme think.. since 18.01.2011 and it's high time I fit some sextra curricular activities into my schedule.

Lately I've been addicted to spare ribs, chicken wings and chips.  Have to watch that though, as not been to the gym in a while so gotta watch it.  I'm pretty sure when you book me you're not looking for a big old heffer haha..

Phonechat is dead, where the hell are the kinky fuckers that used to call my phone?!  Webcam, hmmn.. I should get back on that bandwagon as good money is to be made, but shit man, can I be bothered?  bothered like fuck!! LOL.

I'm here watching Come Dine with Me and I'm feeling like I could eat a nice paella right now.  Just watched a 30 something year old hairdresser snog the face off an almost 70 year old granny on a food show! eww..

Anyway, I'll continue sipping my red wine and enlighten you on my recent activities in the next blog.

*mwah*

Amil x